It
has been too painful to mention my son, but his memory is never
very far away from me. People still come up and say what a fine
young man he was. In many ways he still lives in my heart and
I know in the heart of his mother, sisters, Grandmother and
many friends. David Edwards, a very good friend, suggested that
I say something about Thad because as David said, “It
is time that we mention him.” Thad passed away 15 years
ago at the age of 21 from a “blood clot” pulmonary
embolism. He developed it after breaking his leg while playing
basketball the game he loved. Thad was an average sort of Guy
with a big heart. He graduated from his dream school Morehouse
College in Atlanta, Georgia. He was a quiet kind of fellow until
around family and friends; then his wonderful personality would
abound. He loved his family, his Grandparents, rap music, basketball,
and his friends. At the time of his demise he had a special
lady in his life that we all grew to love. His plans were to
go into criminal justice. We talked about law school. Like most
young people he looked forward to venturing into the mysteries
of life when “God’s will went into effect”.
We were devastated. We are somewhat healed now but never completely.
In Thad’s memory we have established a scholarship to
Morehouse College that has already helped several young men.
The scholarship is in Charleston, South Carolina at the Community
Foundation for young men like Thad who want to go to Morehouse
College. The scholarship has helped and continues to help young
Black men fulfill their educational dreams. The Bell/Schlau
Track and Field Seminar, a seminar to promote fitness and health
among our youth, education for living, and community service,
is done every year in honor of Thaddeus John Bell II “A
Morehouse Man”. Our lives are richer because he is still
a part of us. TJB